How Janet turned her life around
Janet retired at the age of 60. After a lifetime as a busy working mother she was looking forward to happy, relaxed days ahead. But it didn’t turn out like that.
‘Having nothing to do made me feel useless and guilty,’ Janet told us. ‘And with so much time on my own I started to feel unwanted. Eventually I felt so worthless I wondered if there was any point going on.’
Janet remembers the first time she told her GP how she was feeling: ‘He didn’t really listen to what I was saying, and just prescribed an anti-depressant. But even after a few weeks I still couldn’t see a reason to get up in the morning'.
The answer Janet was looking for eventually came from a friend who had been through periods of depression herself. She suggested Janet fill her empty days and that the community centre would have activities and clubs she could join in.
That advice may well have saved Janet’s life. Today her retirement is happy and relaxed as she helps organise speaker meetings, trips and exercise classes at her local centre. It’s given her a whole new circle of friends who make her feel valued again.
Janet’s experience shows that conditions like depression can be beaten if older people are helped to recognise and tackle the roots of the problem, not just the symptoms.