The Impulsive type
Characterised by emotional instability and an inability to control impulses, with episodes of threatening behaviour and violence occurring particularly in response to criticism by others.
The Borderline type
Also characterised by emotional instability. In addition people with this type of personality disorder may experience severe doubts about their self image, aims and sexual preferences which cause upset and distress. It is common to experience a strong and debilitating sense of emptiness and this can lead to self harm and suicide threats. Liable to become involved in intense but unstable relationships which can cause them continual emotional crises, which they will endure to avoid being abandoned.
Causes and treatments
Like other personality disorders, 'Emotionally Unstable Personality Disorder' is a controversial diagnosis. At present there is no consensus as to its causes or treatment
Some people find it helps to be open and honest about past events or situations which have upset them. This enables them to identify risky situations, which are more likely to set off their problematic behaviours. They can then devise strategies for dealing with those risky situations. Having access to a skilled carer or professional to support you through these reflective, problem solving processes can be of considerable benefit.
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- Feelings of excessive doubt and caution compensated by a need to adhere strictly to rules, lists and orders, although paradoxically this perfectionism often interferes with the successful completion of tasks
- Close relationships and pleasurable activities are difficult to maintain in the face of the need to meet excessive standards of conscientiousness and productivity. This attitude is off putting to other people especially as they expect the same dedication from others or conversely will unreasonably seek to prevent others from doing things
- Rigid and stubborn in outlook, whilst also pedantic about doing the right thing
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- Find pleasure in few, if any, aspects of their life
- Unemotional, seem to be cold and unfeeling and find it very difficult to express anger or warmth to other people
- Unaffected by the praise or criticism of others and noticeably insensitive to the norms and conventions held by society
- Prefer to be on their own and have little interest in relationships (including close friendships or sexual ones)
- Very introspective and preoccupied with fantasy
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Written in 2003